[Some of you asked for me to post the full article I wrote for Jamie’s blog here, so here ya go!  Enjoy!’

When I saw Jamie’s topic suggestion for this post I almost died with excitement: how can married women can serve single women better?

Uh. I’m sorry, did you just say: Fabs, can you write a blog post about how your life is so hard and how you’re constantly misunderstood? Why, yes. Yes, Jamie I can.

So, (cracking knuckles), here are the top four things I wish all married women knew about loving single women, (and if you’re only going to read one, skip to number four cause it’s the only one that really matters).

It always seems really self-serving and entitled and pouty when people write blog posts about how their life stage is uniquely challenging.  Obviously, that has never stopped me before, (probably because I am all three of those things).

When my dear friend Jamie asked me to write a blog post on ‘how to love single women’, I realized I had found away to be all of those things without appearing to be any of those things.  Win.

I came up with four ways that married women could really minister to folks like me:

#1 Know when to be silent.