4 more reasons I’m glad I read a book for men

Yesterday I shared a couple of the things I learned from reading The Real Win.  Here are four more thoughts triggered by the book:

3. Men’s sins reveal women’s sins.

There’s a section of the book where Matt and Colt walk through some specific sin struggles that men sometimes face.  As I was reading them I found it pretty hard not to mentally scribble the names of men I know in the margins.

Turns out, reading about the struggles of men managed to highlight for me one of the major struggles of women: comparison.

2 reasons I’m glad I read a book for men

A couple of things you should know about my pastor:

  • He can catch birds with his bare hands.
  • He’s sort of an internet sensation right now because he can catch birds with his bare hands.
  • He just wrote a book with Colt McCoy and it’s pretty great.

I felt a little strange picking it up since it’s called The Real Win: A man’s quest for authentic success.  Despite what some of my blog readers have said, I am not a man.  And I’m not really on a quest for authentic success.Real win

Expectations in Relationships

In our individualist and consumeristic culture it’s really hard to remember what relationships are even about biblically.  

So I figured I’d take a post to remind me and you about what relationships are for and what they’re not for: 

expectations

× Relationships exist to persevere one another.

Take care, brothers, lest there be in any of you an evil, unbelieving heart, leading you to fall away from the living God. But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called “today,” that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin. For we have come to share in Christ, if indeed we hold our original confidence firm to the end. (Hebrews 3:12-14 ESV)

Why I’m glad I’m not in charge

If I was in charge of it all, here’s how I would have written my day today:

MORNING: sleep late.  wake up.  Eat delicious food.

AFTERNOON: watch TV. take a nap.

EVENING: dinner with friends 

NIGHT: early to bed.

But, I have a job and responsibilities and such and so here’s what my day actually looked like:

MORNING: wake up early enough that I can have some time in the Word before my first meeting.

AFTERNOON: continue meetings.  All day.  Back to back.  Until 5:30 PM.

A letter to the church

I came across this letter to the church and had to share it.

To the churches concerning homosexuals and lesbians:

Many of you believe that we do not exist within your walls, your schools, your neighborhoods. You believe that we are few and easily recognized.

I tell you we are many.

We are your teachers, doctors, accountants, high school athletes. We are all colors, shapes, sizes. We are single, married, mothers, fathers. We are your sons, your daughters, your nieces, your nephews, your grandchildren. We are in your Sunday School classes, pews, choirs, and pulpits.