It’s not too late.

[Today’s quote is brought to you from my pal Katie.  Katie is neat.  Katie and her husband (who is a seriously talented designer) have the sweetest little girl at home and another little girl they are in the process of bringing home from Columbia.  Katie is a great theologian and an amazing writer.  Seriously.  And you can be involved in what God is doing through their lives by supporting their adoption process! Do it.  They’re even selling beautiful prints to raise funds.]

“It is never too late to be what you might have been.” – George Eliot

I still remember the rush of hope that ran through my veins the first time I read that quote from George Eliot.  I don’t remember where I was or how old I was; I just remember feeling that sudden thrill of recognition – that moment when you realize that there is someone else in the world who has felt what you feel, who has been where you are, who perhaps knows the pain of regret, yet looks down the road ahead with hope in her heart.

I spent most of my formative years trying to live up to other people’s ideals.  Whether it was parents, teachers, bosses, friends, or boyfriends, it seemed like everyone had high expectations of me, and they weren’t always the same.  And as a people-pleaser and harmonizer by nature, I frequently found myself trying to become the person that someone else wanted me to be.  You might guess that this would be the quickest way to crazy – and you’d be right.

So who am I really?  This is what I’ve been trying to figure out for the past few years.  I’ve made lots of mistakes.  I’m sure I’ll continue to make more.  But I used to look back at my mistakes – my choices – with regret and loss.  I don’t do that anymore (or at least, not too often!).  George Eliot taught me that it’s never too late to be who I might have been.  There is still time; there is grace; there is hope for the future and for change and for a different path; there are still dreams to chase hard after and there are still second chances, thanks be to God.

And that’s why I love this quote.  I never want to look back on my life and think, “I missed the boat.  It’s too late.”  God is always working in me, always changing me, always opening new doors and leading me in new paths.  There really is no “might have been” with God.  There is only hope.  “And hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us” (Romans 5:5).

5 thoughts on “It’s not too late.

  1. I have this Eliot quote written on a sticky note, posted on my moniter. It inspires me every time I sit down at my computer. It gives me such hope; I loved that you combined it with Romans 5:5. Perfect! Thank you.

  2. I am a true testament that it is never too late! God has put new friends, opportunities and adventures in front of me as recent as this year – my 53rd year on the planet!!! We are constantly evolving until the day HE takes us home!

  3. This quote is water to my thirsty and fearful soul. Ive decided to chase my dream, even though it means going for a second degree, taking on debt and plunging into the unknown. Thank you for sharing this encouragement that it will all be worth it.

  4. What hopeful words these are. Brilliant writing, Katie. I can so relate to trying to live up to other people’s expectations, and to the feeling that it’s too late. But God is still at work, as you say.

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