Double Binds for Singles in the church

Some light talk on how the church sets singles up to go insane.

I haven’t yet seen the Barbie movie, but I’ve read America Ferrera’s monologue that clearly resonated with so many. The heart of this speech is a list of Double Binds experienced by women in this culture.

A Double Bind is when you are handed two incompatible demands or two choices that both result in consequences that are evaluated as unbearable. It’s …