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Some thoughts on finding true things to tell yourself, noticing nature, stress & planner layouts

March 2026 Newsletter

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fabsharford
Mar 01, 2026
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March is the best month of the year. (Besides December (cause Christmas).) I said what I said.

Here’s what we’ve got in this newsletter:

  • 🤔 A thought I’m processing [on affirmations]

  • 💕 A thought I’m loving [on noticing nature]

  • 🗳️ A poll [on stress levels]

  • 🔗 Some link love [a planner’s dream]

  • 📆 A full recap & links to this past month’s posts

  • March’s free resource: [daily affirmations worksheet]

🤔 A thought I’m processing [on affirmations]

I’m not an affirmations girlie. I have always thought of affirmations as a form of toxic positivity or like ‘putting-stuff-out-into-the-universe’ type stuff, and that’s not my vibe.

But recently I’ve been doing an exercise where each morning I notice all the different parts of me, and what thoughts or feelings are most active. I spend a few minutes leaning into that part of me and just brain-dumping all the associated stress/frustration/fears.

And then I think through what that voice needs; not like smothering fears or frustrations with positive self-talk - but more like - what does this part of me need to hear? From God, from me? And I think through what feels authentic, true, and important for that part of me to know.

One example: I noticed the other morning that a part of me is just longing to connect with God, but as I leaned into that part of me, I also noticed that I have nothing to bring - no cognitive energy to read my Bible or pray, no emotional energy to process, and even thinking about it leaves me feeling a little exhausted. So, I wrote all that down, without editing or correcting. And then I wrote next to it my ‘affirmation’ —> “God needs nothing from you.”

I’ve been liking it. That’s all.

I made a little journal page for paid subscribers that will walk you through this process if you want to try! (scroll to the bottom of this newsletter)

❤️ A thought I’m loving [on noticing nature]

Loving this study out of Concordia University of Edmonton. It was a two-week study, where some participants were just asked to:

  • Notice the everyday nature they encountered in their typical daily routine (trees, birds through the window, clouds, etc.)

  • Pay attention to how it made them feel

  • Record responses

This basic daily mindful noticing showed significant increases in ‘well-being,’ (which is like positive emotions, life satisfaction, connectedness…)

So that’s cool.

(I’ve been trying it, and the part I find the hardest? Noticing how it makes me feel. I have had to create a word bank because it’s so hard for me to come up with anything.)

🗳️ A poll on [on stress levels]

Despite all that I do to manage my stress levels, I’ve been noticing a lot in the past month. There’s just a lot going on. My hunch, for aw hile, has been that we’re all pretty stressed. But curious about that hunch. So…

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🔗 Some link love

Okay, I’m in deep in the journal world right now. Like the planner-journal world, not just the journal-journal world. So, this section is going to be pretty niche, but for those who are nerds like me - here are some setups/concepts I’ve been loving recently:

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📆 What you missed in February

Below are some links to thoughts I’ve shared this past month! (Please note that some of my messier thoughts and musings are behind a paywall. You can read more about why I do that here, and feel free to upgrade your subscription to access them and support my research!)

  • What Are You Ready to Shed?

  • What Valentine’s Day gets wrong

  • A scary thought about Sunday Scaries

  • Relational dynamics, why you might hate everyone right now & a resource to help you notice your “internal weather.”

🆓 The free resource for March is below (for paid subscribers!)

✏️ Free resource: Daily Affirmations Worksheet

I’ve been trying this practice (that I wrote about in the first section of this newsletter) to start my day, and I’m kind of loving it. Let me know how it goes for you!

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